An End To Over A 10 Year Vehicle Relationship

In march of 2008, I purchased a nissan altima. It was my first car I had ever owned. This car was my most expensive purchase I had ever made. At the time, I didn't have any credit history with no credit cards, no debt, and or credit lines. I was 25 at the time. This car has so many memories throughout the years. I had been on dates in this car, also taking my sisters to different places for christmas shopping when they were much younger. When I bought this car, I was so proud of myself in having a fresh start.

 This was my vehicle I have had the longest. In Feb. 2015, I was in an accident where I guy ran a stop sign. The car protected me through the whole situation. Yes, it has had so many ups and downs in having great times and  down times in fixing the car. Many people don't think of vehicles as a personal story. In thinking about it, our vehicles are there even in failing events happen. No matter what they are always there for us. I purchased the car when it had 61k miles and when I sold the car there was almost 177k miles on it. The memories of when my father changed the fuel pump for free and even purchasing the part. The many runs with delivery of my sculptures. At time to begin and another time to end. A car that was there through thick and thin.

Make Your Conversations Count

As dealing with visiting with my grandparents and seeing their transition from going from their home to going to a retirement is a huge difference. Think about it, Can you pick having your freedom and ability to go where you want, when you want for 9 decades, then after falling, going to surgery to never going back to the home you worked for to own decades? Also working through, seeing your own wife not being here mentally and forgetting decades of memories to forgetting who family are. Plus, in coming to terms of outliving all of your father, mother, and siblings to having no one you knew growing up is still here.

At a certain point, it is a accomplishment to outlive all of your close family and at the same time a very challenging time. Anyone who does this, has to come to terms of it. In the mid part of time of this year since my grandparents have transitioned over to a retirement home, I have made it an intention to have meaningful conversations with my grandpa. Many things, we both wanted to say for years and didn’t have that kind of moment to share. My grandpa is very blunt and to the point. An style of being straight to the point is something many people need these days. Yes, it may hurt upfront however it is the honesty, we all crave to have. In knowing, each time this maybe the last time I get to see my grandpa, I make sure there is closure and a meaningful interaction. I had wanted to tell him for a long time. He needs to have an uplifting memmorable experience in what time he has left. The same goes for you. I’d like to hear your feedback and how you can relate.

Focusing On What's Not Important

What is the point of focusing on if another person has (job). A job is not who the person is. This is only an activity they choose to do within a certain frame of time. I find too many others tie personal worth to a job when as the world knows, could be here today and gone tomorrow. Especially in this ever evolving world now.

Why not focus on the value each person brings instead of what title they have? When each person only has a title it limits their potential of doing more on a personal and professional level. In this period of time some people have a full time business and a full time job. Bring more value within the memories to your clients is what matters in a special way. What really matters is the way you see yourself. From there, it reflects outwardly in the way you look, by the actions you take and the words you speak.

Negative People Situation

The conversations people have is the self reflection being mirrored outwardly. When people don't think things are possible, it has nothing to do with you. I once had a situation where a individual was trying to boost himself up and rush me in trying to purchase his services. At the same time, condescending  on where I am at in my business and capabilities. Talking down to potential clients is not the answer to your solution. If anything, the client will run and ignore.

Another thing is sometimes, no matter what you say, the individual will be offended because they want to be. If the other individual only wants to see everything all from their perspective, the whole situation will be missed in learning from the situation. From the people who don't have self reflection, it is best to leave them learn on their own. There is nothing you can do to help them, nothing you can say to help shift them. It is their own choice to be who they choose to be. These toxic people don't understand the emotion and decisions right now. Stay with those who are with you and help you grow from all different levels.

 I'd like to hear your story. How have you learned from toxic/negative people?

Focus On Happiness Instead of Your Temporary Situation

It is so easy to be swallowed up into the current state and situations to be occupied with being miserable. However why not focus on what helps others and in due time your situation will shift. As each year goes through, more stories through your efforts has impacted others, the perspective changes. In seeing things outside of yourself, the perception changes.

Make sure you take the time to see beyond yourself. Things change when you see life from the other side. Also if what you have done hasn’t work, examine all of you actions. Tweek what you have done and execute. Everyone successful has to examine what works and what doesn’t. This goes for art busienss, artists of all types and so on. By putting priorities on the high level. Consistent with each step, the better weight you will have in your desires.

Your Health Is Invaluable

This week I went to get medical testing done. I had to face the fact of I have to change into the person I choose to. Facing myself now in the mirror is the right thing to do. If I do not I risk the chance of having organ failure and shorter lifespan. This is not easy to do, however is the best action to take.

The way you take care of your body has everything to do with quality of life while you are here. By educating yourself, as best as you can and talking to a very experienced medical scientist is a start to having better health. It is up to you if you choose to see a doctor. No matter what listen to your body. It will tell you if you are in the right place by how you physical feel on all levels. Learn to always be consistently learning and adapting in so you will be at your peak. Feeling so healthy, strong, energetic is so precious. You don’t understand until it is gone. The sooner you take care of yourself, the sooner you will likely recover and health correctly, I’d like to hear your story on how you took charge of your health. What have you learned along this process?

The longer You Are Here.....

Within the decades and years, everyone is either about to or has dealt with people will passing away. It brings the question of "Do I really want this" as in the experience it provides or value? What matters is you gain a lifetime of experiences you can hold within to cherish.

Recently, I was looking through my grandpa's old pictures from back in high school. As you picture yourself being in his shoes and living the life he did growing up, It is a totally different time. Back then they didn't have tv, electricity, computers, cell phones, internet, indoor plumming, refrigeration. It is awazing in examining a person's life as your own in viewing what they have experienced over 90 years. Another situation, in which is great and sad at the same time is outliving all of the family and friends you knew growing up. My grandparents have outlived so many people and I can see why they have the point of view they do

.If you have made mistakes in which we all have. Take the time to make a goal and a vow to fix the life you have while you have the opportunity. You never know when your last day will be. Treat everyone with respect. Create a rapport with as many as you can. The world is small and it all comes back around. I'd like to hear your story and point of view.

The Disbelief Of Others

It is easier to disbelieve everything then to prove it. Putting in the time and effort, others only what you have done in front of their eyes. No matter how much work and effort you have put in, other people including your family wont get it. They haven't ever been where you are at, nor put in the work you have. Having the courage to believe in yourself is all you need.

The main fact is, develop your mission to serve your right target audience and talk to your right clients.Those are the ones you matter the most. The people who tell you, this or that will never happen is showing their personal views, not reality.Those who talk down to you are normally the ones who are you not your clients and aren't going to pay your bills with nor give the long lasting support you need to grow your business. You mission is where it all starts from. It is who you are.

Stolen From/ Learning Experience

Years ago my art was stolen from 1993 to 2004 period of time. At first I wasn’t happy about it and the same time, glad it happen at the certain time. This art was from when I was using it for therapy. A lot of negative and other emotion experiences. Then I thougt to myself, I get a chase to have a clearn slate in starting from scratch. I wouldn’t have the reminders of the past.

In starting with a new clean slate, I have room to work on and the opportunities to open the empathic abilities to help others. This event was one of the defining moments in my life. It brings the mindset of breaking away from being held back creatively, and many others ways.

Is there a defining moment in your life you would like to share? I’d like to hear your story.

Have A Valid Point

I care for my family however they don’t understand when I am working, they competely ignore. They don’t understand nor really care I need complete focus, they disregard everything. One of them has a temper and likes to argue over the smallest of things. This person did go to anger management yet hasn’t owned up to their own responses and wants to point the finger at everyone else.

If she doesn’t take ownership over her life she will have to find out the hard way. If you argue and fight over the smallest of things then there must be a larger issue looking in the mirror. It has nothing to do with winning the argue. Ask yourself why am I arguing in the first place? Yes we all have times of when we want to do certain things in the moment, however weighing in on it is better worth it to know the aftermath.

I Started Baking Recently........................

Many years ago, I used to bake a lot more. I was looking at the box mixes and didn’t like all the extra ingredients. By choosing better ingredients the final result is what you are looking for. The first batch turned out good in a smaller quantity. The second batch was much larger. It was ok however I am making this for others so I know they will want it sweeter and softer.

Experimenting at first is more important to improve before bring it out for others to try. I want to offer my best since I choose to bring this perception to others who encounter myself and what I am offering. After all, this is piece of who I am beyond just the food. The joy and pleasure to offer is here when I bring it on the final mastering.

Until then I will continue to work on it.Offer your best in honest upfront expression.

Is that a cucumber?

One time, I was at a show. This lady come up to me and said is this a cucumber? I thought it was funny. I said, Is it on fire cucumber? I was joking. She could tell I wasn’t serious. Then I could tell she was serious. She then said. This work reminds me of my most favorite boss she ever had. He would always eat big salads. The piece reminds her of the best time of her life around her best boss she ever had.

From this, I started thinking, What can I do for others in helping to preserve a symbol of their loved one in art? We all want to keep the best times and a lifetime of memories in our mind. It is invaluable through the experiences we enjoy in the moment. That time we will never get back and at the same time. We love our loved ones we have lost. I can identify with this all too much. I miss many people who have passed away. This is a part of why I create art. Helping others to heal and process the loss to work through emotional,psychological barriers we have to evolve through. Seeing funerals, it brings a perspective in the value of time and relationships.

The Grass May Seem Greener On The Other Side

In learning many new leasons, others may think the grass is greener on the other side. Such as a marriage, in where the man is great to his wife. If the wife is bored of the relationship yet the man provides so much by working day and night. The whole spectacle may seem dreadful because the wife never sees her husband. Yet, she doesn’t understand how much time and work is going into the final result. At a certain point, the wife out of no where wants a divorce despite the husband working so much for her. After the separation, and divorce, the woman still isn’t happy and realizes the man she married has moved on. Meanwhile she misses the life she had. Sometimes we may think life is greater on the outside and when we get there we wish we had what was left behind

This whole perception is more then just marriage. It can apply to a job, business parners, relationships, vehicles, health, time spent, and so many more choices. Search for others who have been in your situation, understand what they chose to do, and make your own best decisions. This way you will be happier in making the right choice instead of regret years from now.

Always In A Rush

Today, I drove into a gas station. There were so many vehicles lined up, people were honking and were blocking others from parking including myself. The time of when you are executing is key. Start earlier and you will have ahead start. If you procrastinate you will regret it and be waiting in long lines meanwhile attempting to get to where you are needing to be. Procrastination will always slow down where you are wanting to be.

We all are guilty of procrastination no matter where you are from. At times you brain needs to unload other things and refuel in what is important since it is so easy to get distracted with all of this technology and to do lists. Why not single out the things in which matter the most to you. Ask the question, does this go toward the direction you are focused on arriving at?

Fill In The Gap For Your Clients

I recently was in a situation with my vehicle. I purchased the wrong parts for my vehicle and spent four hours on it to attempt in fixing it. Then, realized the parts I had purchased were the wrong ones. The next day, I called around to find a place to get my vehicle in. The majority couldn't get me in until next week. You never know if this could get you stranded. I acted fast and found a place to have my vehicle fixed. As soon as I established an appointment, the stress level diminshed a lot.

What this all boils down to is observe your clientsand understand they need assistsance.Filling in the gap is where you will shine.Relieving stress with your clients is a positive and one less thing to stress about. The question is, How can you fill in the gap where your clients? This applies to all industry to every business from person to person.

Reward Vs. Risk

In pursue, of doing what you are projected to do, there is always a reward vs risk. Along the way, we make mistakes. You want others to take you seriously instead of putting you on a lower level. What counts is you taking yourself seriously with action and words to back it up. Putting in the long hours, and leverage along with others is where it matters in creating the meaning you are seeking.

Normally those who put you in a small box, perceive their own self in this way. Their perception has nothing to do with you. Other relationships will be beneficial and others are limiting. Be careful who you allow in your life. Family you inherit, friends you can choose. The perception of others is their personal choice in accepting reality as they choose. You will have to seek those who are like minded and supporting each other to thrive.

Not Enough TIme?

Time is the commodity you will wish you could get back once it is gone. Do you find yourself frustrated at how much you have to do meanwhile need more things to get to done? There comes a place where you have to ask yourself, where am I spending most of time at? Am I really happy with the time I have already spent? Is this giving me fulfillment and value?

 We have to have this realization of scheduling the day in getting done what really matters. We only have so much time in a day. It could be a since of you needing to get up earlier while all is quieter and clearer in the mind. Sleepless nights can be a haunting issue mentally, emotionally, and definitely physically in energy levels while thinking of regret in wishing you could have gotten certain things accomplished. You have to say, No, to the people who are there to distract you. Distractions are what causes you to waste so much time. This includes online, face to face, waiting in line, waiting on customer service of any certain business to respond. Do work while you are waiting and keep conversations direct. Your time is the most precious asset.

Educate Yourself Every Day

Self education is more powerful then traditional education. There is a difference in learning because you are forced to and another when you have a yearning to learn more on your own time. In realizing what you equip your mind with will reinforce your body and all the functions it needs to have.

With self education, learn to listen to your body. It will tell you when something is right and when things are about to turn. For instance if you are starting to have weakness, hurting all over, chills and or a headache, learn to listen and strengthen your immune system. The sooner you know your body the sooner you will be able to attack the virus in equiping your own body to defend itself. Having down time when you work 7 days a week isn't an option to have. Study all you can about nutrition, herbs and all other viable options in keeping your health.

Do What You Don't Want To

There are times of when you don't want to do certain things. You understand in the end of it you will benefit or even others will along with yourself. Today, I chose to paint my shed. I didn't want to yet I knew it had to be done. It has needed for some time. I said to myself, this is the day I complete it. It took eight hours of work to complete it.

 Although it is not perfect. The fact is I did my best to improve the overall appearance. At times you will have things come up when you didn't expect. Expenses can come up unexpected. Set as funds for emergencies and for security of mind. Having less stress when events happen will make your life go a little smoother. In situations such as this, there is always a lesson to learn even at the time you may not enjoy it. Look for the hidden lesson.

Pushing Through The Exhaustion

There has be something in you to keep on going. Everyone has many things to do. A purpose and meaning must be what pushes you to keep on going. The substance, no matter how much you are attacked even from your own family must ride or die mentality. Are you willing to push yourself to near death to accomplish your vision into reality?

Hope is pointless since you can’t measure it. With action, you can measure. The discipline is what counts. Understand what you are sacrificing to get to where you see yourself at. Your family will benefit from your discipline. By setting an example, pass on the torch you have within to your family to live on. Take great care of yourself, you only get one body. To perform, you have to push through and taking care of yourself is the foundation.

Losing The House You Grew Up In

In recent times, I have been dealing with losing the house I grew up in. My grandparents have owned this house for over 60 years. I grew up in it from til I was 12 almost 13. Throughout the years, the whole family would come here to celebrate the holidays such as thanksgiving, christmas, easter and other times. Many stories I didn't know about my grandpa. I could understand why he was in tears at nursing home. I have never seen my grandpa ever cry in all of the time I have known him.

 In all the time I have known this house as my family's house. Many memories have came flooding into my mind. Many good times and bad happened there. It feels like a part of myself has ended considering the heritage of family.

My grandpa didn't think he would live this long. We all thought they would have been gone years ago. However they have outlived all of their siblings and parents. Can you picture outliving all of your siblings, and other family? It is a challenge to deal with considering, the family being in their life is all they new for decades. Have you ever experienced this? If so, I'd like to hear your feed back.

Offer A New Perception

I recently was talking with a man who is in a networking event. At first, he was trying to understand where I was coming from in my frame of mind. He was talking about joining another specified network. I said, this can be a great opportunity however it must be worth the time and effort for the right outcome.

 He was mentioning being in college for engineering. Then being asked about the art I create. I said, doing sculptures is very similar to engineering. The fact you must know your materials from the metal, to the paint, anchors, pressure points. He said, I never thought about it this way. It is closer then you think by the way it is related. When meeting others, I say to myself, how can we collaborate and benefit at the same time. Both people have the driving force to succeed so why not work together.

Another nugget is, Instead of assuming everything from another person, be open to getting to know someone else and ask questions respectfully.

Define Your Own Voice

I recently decided to hire a person to write a book for me. From the outside she looks great in how much experience she has. I am thinking she would do an awesome job. After waiting longer then the main deadline, I received the ebook draft. It has too much fluff to where if I put this out there, it will look like I have no idea what I am talking about. I chose to rewrite it all. Making a book in which is straight to the point yet giving very valuable information is the focus.

The whole point of this book is to help other artists saving time, money, and energy. Years of trial and error I learned in doing this. Researching more information to help others and myself is the basis of the book along with my experience. I wish I had a how to guide doing this when I started. As an artist, saving money yet having the same high quality is the focus. The reputation is a large part of the final result and focal point in the life of the art collector.

Listening To The Still Voice

With all of the technology, it has divided this generation and the younger generations after. Tv, social media, the average music has numbed us to the point we don't see the reality we are facing in front of us.  The current emotion we are in seems to be separated. Seeking the material possessions has been too much of the focus instead of the relationships we have to develop. There is a faces and or faces between what you are wanting and actually receiving.

This is more then materialism. It is the loss of knowing who you personally are. We need to seek what is meaningful to each one of us.The things you say and the action you put into whichever you choose is the person you choose. Before my step dad was about to pass, something told me to dig out the driveway for my parents so if they needed to go somewhere they could.  When I came inside my parents house my stepdad was slouched over and non responsive since his body was shutting down. I had no idea he was about to pass. Listen closely to the inner voice in which tells you to help others and in your own best interest.

Hire Quality - Invest A Higher Amount

In hiring, how much you pay and personal screening to see the qualifications. However, the actions and results are what you are looking for. Treat who ever you hire with respect as if you are on the other end. The more hungry the person is the better results will happen.

Don't be too cheap. Tell the people who are interested, you will started at a lower price at first. Once they have proved their self being reliable and do quality work the wages will go up. Remember who ever you hire will be the reflection on who you are so pick the best ones to team up with.

Two out of the five people who I hired finished the job I assigned them. One out of the five got the job done before the deadline. I gave him a great review. Also give encouragement in what they are doing right. From time to time give constructive criticism and be very clear in direction. The better instructions you give and information you bring the better the final result will be. I told the guy who got done first before anyone, he will be the first pick before anyone else. Despite how challenging the tasks were he kept on going until it looks great. Listen to what they say and how it aligns with what you are doing in looking for the best fit.

The Last Time You Talk With Your Loved Ones

Make every conversation worthwhile in depth and meaning. Instill belief in them in all they are doing. The majority of people don't get the positive re-enforcement. To everyone, Every thing has a beginning. No one is going to be great at it in the learning phase. Get to know the people you are around and their inspirations. You may be gone tommorrow. Cherish the time you have.

I want to take the time to say thank you to all of you who have listened to my posts, conversations, and more. It means a lot to me in getting to know you and who you are. I look forward to helping you and developing a relationship. What are we without relationships? What can we be with relationships being in unity?

Be Proud Of Your Accomplishments

Too many focus only on the failures. Yes, lessons learned in failure are invaluable, however take the time to be proud of what you have accomplished. Once you have done make bigger goals. Work on them every day. In making new goals and going for it, you will have a hunger to beat your last record

.World class athletes do this. Once they hit the bar, it is raised.  In high school Michael Jordan was kicked off the high school basketball team. This motivated him to keep on praticing. Michael was so poor he used trash cans as basketball hoops. He made up his own standard instead of someone else putting a standard on him. When you are are your own biggest competition, the inner game changes.

Test Yourself Before Anyone Else Does

In working on many different pieces and larger works I set goals in accomplishing certain deadlines in the process. Creating art is a disciplined lifestyle. Being your own boss is a disciplined life. Self guidance is more important then ever.  Why not live for the challenge while others dread it.

The question comes to mind, "What are you pushing yourself to accomplish without anyone else doing it for you". Having internal drive is essential in setting your own standards instead of having someone or everyone else to push their standards on you. It is a completely different way of thinking and daily work being putting in.

In making your own standards by going the extra mile no matter where you are, you will shine and people see you care about the service, and experience you offer compared to everyone else. Especially in so many people don't want to be there so they do little as possible and stall a lot. Why not be the rapid fire along with strategically planning all you are going to accomplish.

The hustle and bustle

We all are so busy each day. There comes a time when you have to ask yourself "What matters most to myself.  Until you think about it and sit down with this question, life on average blurs together. In never seeing your family because you work too much, you miss years of quality time you could have spent and wish you'd changed it around.

As I get older, I think about my mother, in how I hardly see her and want her to feel the best she can. She doesn't have teeth. I purchase the best kinds of food I can for her to have the nutrients she needs and be abe to eat them. I want to see her around for many more years. Not eating enough of the right food or lack of nutrients will affect quality of life over the years.

The Right People

Certain people will be your target audience. In the art business world, your work must be engaging. Some people will mesh well with your work in the form, message and all of the above. The sad part is the average person in the general public since art uses the different side of the brain most people don't even consider. There is no off and on switch in the imagination.

Creating art is more then just the material. Although the general material knowledge is needed, it is far from the focal point. Conceptually speaking, the meaning behind a work is a large part in the connection along with association with a certain influential event.The bible to a christian is more then paper, gold fold, and binding seem. It is a way of life. 

Pick Quality Over Quantity

For a long time, I had wondered how my distant artist neighbor was doing. We used to be in the same gallery. I didn't know he had left the gallery I was in. I thought maybe he would have changed. He was very depressive and not very motivated. He made excuses meanwhile he could be a lot better. Claiming victim hood way too soon. He said, he like to anti social, yet likes sales? It is counter intuitive.

Who I am around must be high energy, honest, positive, driven, successful. I don't accept anything else in being successful. The quality people I seek are far better in their choices. I told the artist, I said money may not be important now, it will catch up to you and you'll find out the hard way. The cost of everything will go up so much more. It has nothing to do about the money. It is the freedom to do more and quality of life this can afford. In serving people more at the core of who they are is where the need is.

Take Advantage Of Each Opportunity Today

My step dad was a us navy veteran. He lived his life and wished he would have taken more opportunities. Making a family came before the opportunities he could have taken. I didn't understand him until I finally saw the whole picture on why he was depressed. My step dad was mental abusive. The upbringing he came from was at a distance from his mother and father. I think he wishes his parents would have shown more affection towards him. For many years, I had a grudge against him. It was so blinding in how much I disliked him. His health started going down hill five years before he had passed away. I had wanted him to quit smoking years ago for him to be here longer. One day, I asked him, "Do you want to see your two daughters graduate from high school ?" He never answered. I know he wishes he could have achieved more.

 Tommorrow is not Guaranteed. Make each day with action. You never know when your last day will be.

Work On Redirecting Your Emotions

I have been thinking lately about how I respond in different situations. In being a potential leader position or even a person who is listened to on a honest level when speaking, you have to learn to control your emotions. Yes, controlling your emotions can be really challenging when there is so much on your plate. For example, top level CEOs of many companies. Others only look at their pay level instead of how much responsibility they have day in and day out. Think of yourself at the person who is above you as being in their play. Perspectives changes in turning the tables.

In seeing others outburst in emotion at certain points. I can understand however doing it at the wrong time and place can have bad effects over your reputation and potential business. In having explosive emotions in your mind and outwardly, you need to ask yourself what is the main cause of this current issue. Using your emotions in the right way constructively is very important for your well being and respect from others.

This why I create art as being a vehicle for expression. At times, expressing yourself is best suited visually instead of verbally. Doing art, I have been able to find myself and become more aware.

Plant The Seed Of Expanding

Too many focus on what they can't do or think they can't do. Why not get to know others and show them opportunities they didn't realize were open to them. I take time to get to know others and listen close. I say to the people I know and meet over time, why not start a restaurant, make a course on how to sharpen knives, expanding their market in who can use their product, give connections with others who can help to obtain the final result.

One time I was talking to this lady. She said she needs an attorney. I said I bet you already know one and don't realize it because an attorney is already in your circle. Soon after, She said recently an attorney helped her with legal work to protect her from a situation. I said, See you already have an attorney within your own reach. You have to acknowledge it.

Value Yourself Before Anyone Else Values You

Today, I was talking to another artist. Her show got rained out. She was feeling sick. I said to her, I'd like to help you in many other social media outlets to help her get out there. The more you limit your venues, the more you limit your sales. She said, it is not worth it to expand.  I said, it is worth it when you raise your prices. Honestly, your perception of weither you can or can't is strictly up to you. Too many people don't see how much the limiting self beliefs are impacting their current and past results.

I personally have been there.  Yes, it is not good and the hard times happens. When I have shows or festivals in which get rained out, I think to myself, how can I turn this around to become more productive. Go out there and network. You never know, someone who knows someone else can create another event to rebound or another connection at a later point.

Building Trust And Respect

Recently, I was in a big meeting of where a large discussion was taking place in front a town. There was so much outrage and many people angry at the situation among the committee members. The lady who was beside me was attacking the committee member in question. I wanted to listen to the whole meeting and be quiet. when the lady beside me was yelling at the committee, the committee was loking at me and seeing I wanted no part of it. How can you burst into anger in front of everyone there and develop trust with everyone.

 I was not there for the committee member issue. I was there to build rapport with those people in a calm and respectful manner. In saying what you are saying, speak with meaningful purpose. Listen before you speak to understand their point of view. I was very patient in waiting for the right time to speak since I wanted to be heard correctly. Opportunities don't normally pop right in the place in going to a new place. The communities have to see you as an asset and upstanding person to respectfully honor. Keep on going and reaching out. You never know until you opportunity will come since they are thinking about you and bring a stronger relationship in building trust.

Living Life Or Taking Your Life Too Early

Today, someone made a story up in saying I am suicidal in which it is false. What is the point of giving up when I have given so much encouragement to so many people. Yes, in my late teens to almost my mid 20's I had depression. Releasing the hurt and trauma from my earlier years was a huge stepping stone to healing. The question in which needs to be asked is, Do I really want to be known as the person who gave up? Do I want to inflict pain on my family and friends? No, I have so much more to live for. I have a purpose and much more to do. The same goes for you. Your purpose will come when you least expect it to reveal it to you. Be open to understand your purpose instead of the easy way out of giving up. This all boils down to what do you want in your life. Take a look in the mirror and examine your life. Is where you are the place you desire to be in? If not, it is time to shift into the person and place you see yourself being in.

Being Human

In the present time, we go through hardships whether it would be a death, a mistake, misjudgement, loss of all different aspects. In the moment it is the most influential time. The question is, Would you view these situations in hindsight as though you are speaking to yourself in a comforting way and learning from each one?

For someone it can evoke strong emotion for each trigger. The whole ideas can haunt each person for a decades and potentially for a lifetime. For each individual this is all subject to powerful moments in their life. Understanding what has been learned from the situation is more critical then the at the moment it is happening. Healing is the starting point of knowledge.

What mistakes have you learned from? I would like to hear from you.

Use The Negativity Of Others To Propel You

My family says they believe in my business when they don't even have any clue how it works nor how much work it takes to put into it. All of my family, has either given up and or never even attempted in doing what they love. Yet they wonder why they aren't personally happy. I see my family and ask the question, Do I want to be in the same place as them at their same stage, No way. I have goals and momentum to go.

Years ago, my family said to me, I believe in you then questiond me later. What is the point of saying something in this context deemed meaningless. Why not base your words and actions in a meaningful and propelling intent. Use what people tell you, "You Can't Do This Or Do That?" to push you. I know it lights my fire up. Prove it to yourself you can accomplish what you set your mind to. Do all in which is required and more to get it. You are worth the effort, time, and investment of bring the idea you have in your mind to life.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     

The Average Mental Plague

Too many people would rather disbelieve then to believe in anyone including their own self. Watch what others question are. The types of questions being asked are where they are mentally. Just because you don't believe something doesn't make it false. Open your mind to world of self belief.


If the artist is providing value for your business by displaying in your business, what doesn't mThe same notion goes with being a professional artist. People don't think they can make a living when they haven't  even don't a speck of research and believe only what they are (told). Artists are the only people who have failed. There are by far more business owners who have failed then artists. What it all comes down to is the mindset of learning instead of seeing failure as a final forever result.

If the artist is providing value for your business by displaying in your business, what doesn't matter if he or she does this professionally or not. The main point is the artist is bringing high value to your business and in a timely manner meanwhile being professional. I am here to help those in their weaknesses and have other people in where my weaknesses are.

Life Is Fragile - Decide To Do Differently

In hearing about so many people passing, it brings the question of "Am I  operating my life on my own terms?" Getting old doesn't take as long as you think. Years feel like seconds. Eventually it will be you in the person's place where you currently see them at. It is not about doom and gloom. The honesty with yourself is what matters

.Having empathy has its pros and cons however it does have a positive in seeing beyond our ownself. In seeing yourself from a different perspective in looking from outside into who you are is a whole new world too many miss from the daily busyness we associate with. In seeing this, your time becomes more valuable to yourself by the choices you make. What are you choosing to change today in order to live your life on your own terms?

For A Great Service, Give Acknowledgement, and A Solid Tip

Once I went to this restaurant, I ordered a pizza. The server was very attentive and asking how everything is and yet not hovering ever 2 minutes. The place is pretty busy. The food was great and in a timely manner. The attitude of the server was positive. When the time came for the bill, I gave him a 100% of my bill. I told the young man, you need to go next door and teach them how to do service. I had to let him know how well he did service and show appreciation since there needs to be more of this all over.

The attitude of anyone giving service is a huge part of the whole experience. For one, giving eye contact, asking would you like anything else with a smile, checking on the customer every 8 minutes or so. Just have to read the customer and realize, how would like your service to be given to you? Both sides need to understand each side has a completely different life and one of them maybe going through a lot. Asking honestly, How is your day going and what can I do for you. People like to go where they feel welcome and at home. Reward great service and tell the server and cook they did a great job. Many times they feel under appreciate by their boss. You never know you could be making a bad day even better for them. What kinds of stories do you have you would like to share? I'd like to see your feedback.

Your Connections Are Worth More Then Money

Remember your connections are worth more then money. Decide to make relationships a higher priority. Money will come in due time and developing trust. People purchase from you since they resonate with you. With all of these companies and commercials they lose touch with the person behind the logo. It all starts with the one person and grows over time.

The only way you will earn income no matter how much money it is, is by providing a perceived value along with the relationship. Too many people focus on the reward in material possessions and money when this all leads to an empty person over the long term. Being wealthy has it pros and cons. This is all depends on the each person. The money magnifies who the person is. The question is, Who are you in your identity and what are willing to provide in high value?

Be A Consistent Learner

In think we know everything, life ends right there. By learning every day, your mind stays sharper. Decide to learn new subjects in add to your skills. No matter if all your possessions are taken away you still have the skills being accumulated. The growth mindset is far greater then the only staying one place.

By choosing learning it will strengthen your coping skills and taking care of yourself. The mental health is all connected to you physical health. Both work together. In self education, this can save your life faster then a doctor. In educating yourself, you are giving the tools in your toolbox.  The skills you have acquired will come in handy in their time of need. To love yourself, you must immerse yourself into learning.

Listen To The Language You Use

I was talking to a lady who is going through a challenging time in divorce as she lost the place she lived in. When she spoke her mindset was in the can't. She was in a business meeting with a friend and wasn't expexting to get help for her in art business process. She hadn't found herself yet. She is stuck in the present tense and focused on all the issues as she described it as chaos. I said to her when you are ready, you will move on through this. Her friend and myself were there to be supportive on who is working on to be. I mentioned, why not use your situation to use this emotion to express it in your work to speak who are going through what you are temporary in.

Yes, situations in which you go through aren't pleasant, however, in way you redirect them is how you define what happens in your mind. Yes, I want as many people to succeed in all levels much as possible. Being the victor is your choice every day instead of being a victim. This took me decades to finally work through my hurdles. You can too.

Are You Putting In Your All Or Performing Mediocre?

In any place of business, you can tell who really cares about you by the effort being put into the whole experience. Myself personally, for instance have been to many restaurants and I can tell when they put in the effort by the quickness and freshness of the food. Plus the attitude of the person who is giving you the service and product. The whole welcoming experience makes you want to come back for more since it has become a rarity. At the same time, an opportunity has opened for you because of this.

The same goes for art, the main result of what people see is from the mindset the artist is coming from at the time of creating the work. The effort, the care in details, the quality, the deeper expression from within. The comparison is the artist who puts theirself into their work by projecting the story from within compared to an artist who is just making art because they think people will purchase it. No, you have a purpose. Don't base your work only on making sales since your time and effort are crucial to your collectors. Your image on how you see the world is being projected into the final result potential collectors will see. Do you see you owe it to yourself to be more and do more?

I'd like to hear your story in what you do and have done to set yourself apart.

The More Difficulty, The Higher Value Is Placed

In the times, when I was having much difficulty in working on new pieces of work. No matter how many times I failed, I still learned. Yes, frustration happens in the period of time however it creates a sense of determination to complete what is in front of you. There have been times of when I had to start all over again three times. I said to myself, I am going to finish this and it took 17 hours to complete in having to put together a half of a mile of wire each time.

Failure is a lesson being learned. Yes, it is the hard way. Most of us have to learn this way to finally get it. What matters is you keep your determination and endurance to complete what is needed. At the end of you completing it, you will look back and be glad you have developed an even stronger person then before. Challenge yourself every day. It builds up your sense of self worth. Your are worth the effort in becoming a better version of yourself.

What You Schedule Is Your Priority And Values

All of us have busy times. However when you schedule your day in advance you will accomplish more in the time you have alloted. Letting your time slip by will result in regret on wishing you would have gotten more of what you desire to complete. Set earlier time to get up. Seeing the sunrise as you take a walk is refreshing since you got a chance to see what most people wont because their own choices.

 By being disciplined it will help you to focus on what is most important in your life. Having your life become a giant blur is what too many people do when they can savor what they have. The thought process of when you are young is completely different when you are much older. Being younger you think of only making a paycheck and as you get older, experiences become more valuable since you see time as limited. Make the most of the time you have and in the positive energy and health you have as much as you can.

The Cycle Of Living Life

As you look at families all over the world, a cycle has been in full motion since the beginning of time. With my grandparents, it is so strange with their house being sold after over 60 years. It is funny how you learn a lot more about people when going through their possessions in a respectful way and to have those memories held further then the life expectancy of loved ones.

Flashbacks happen, with them and of the house you grew up in throughout the decades. Think about them in the period of time they grew up in. In looking at others, you see yourself in their place. Can you see yourself living past 100 years old and still be fully functional? Much of technology and the way society functions are different with a fast pace. Although some of the older ways are better compared to the new.

A Different Perspective Of The Creative

I have noticed too many artists like to measure up other artists. It doesn't matter other then do they have goals and are they working on them. The size of their studio, where they work, and so on doesn't matter. The whole focus needs to be building relationships, and how can I help you where you are. A status is honestly a waste of time. What you create as an visual artist is about the experience people connect with in order to want to be apart the art.

The mere asking the other artist in  asking you how much money do you make, were your studio is, what your achievements are is a sign of insecurity. They don't believe in their own ability so they look outwardly. Even in the perspective of seeing others isn't the fact of self doubt. It needs to be I can accomplish this since this person has already. A victimhood mentality by negatively measuring everyone else up compared to pushing yourself since for a fact it has already been done.

A Predicament/Dilemma

As I work so much, I hardly see my family. If I am around my family I can't work around them since major distractions prohibit myself from being productive. I understand family time is to be cherished. In working so much, I will admit to missing my family even though they don't understand how much work and dedication it takes in putting it in for years for a business. It is a common inner conflict in running a business or see.

I make certain times when I help my family throughout the week. I wouldn't be able to do it nearly as much as my family would like. They always seem amazed at how much work I do since i have a purpose on who I am and what I do. A personal stardard in my ability to contribute and work. I will have to look at times of when I can take a short break to make time for my family since we only get one.

A Subject Being Introduced

I was talking to someone and they were looking at my content. They said, I need to talk about loneliness more directly. Why talk about things in which are so negative. Words are powerful and in speaking it is drawing more of what you are saying. We all have gifts, too many glaze over them since they don't feel their gifts aren't valuable. Yes, nearly every human has experienced loneliness. It is how you define it instead of becoming obsessed with this intense emotion. Which emotion would you honestly pick to experience, Euphoria, or only painful torment as loneliness can be?

In my gifts such as being an visual artist it brings sheer joy. This is what I have for the world and bringer a higher energy. I honestly don't feel I would be alive if it I didn't do art. By doing art, it has helped me in countless ways. Being constructive in the current world is an asset instead of surrounding all you know as destruction.

 As of lately, I have been adding in more stories about my family and what is going on to add a perspective for you. For a huge part of my life I was extremely negative. I had so much baggage and needed to forgive many people along with releasing my pent up anger. I chose to forgive, give closer to others, mend what I could in the time I had in order to become the person I know today.

Be Honest With Yourself

In starting in being honest with ourselves, it is not going to pretty however it is what we need to hear. Learning to take better care of each one of us from all aspects is going to evolve in being mentally transparent with personal intimacy with our own self. We do have pain, it is pointless to waste time being surrounded by it. The process of healing is a hear to aide all aspects in being ready and willing.

We all have triggers unknowingly connected to certain times in our life even in the slightest in the realm of what our mind understand can bring back flashbacks. It is essential to dig deep within ourselves in answering the questions we have. The environment we are in is a large influence since the subconscious mind is always open. It is our choice in holding what is dear within us. In all honesty, what is held in each one of us disperses all around by what is accepted. We must be honest with ourselves in order to have the life we seek for the now and the future.

Work Until You Find What Works

In the methods and techniques haven't worked then go to what is new and study what does work. The failure is only temporary. Bumps will happen. Learn from your mistakes. If you need to apologize to certain people do it since the world is so small. Everyone knows someone around the world to connect together in any given time. Get to know operating costs, Source your own products with the same great quality. Always maintain the same quality if not upgrade within certain amount of time.

I went through so many galleries and those didn't accept my work. I am fine with rejection. This means when I see a yes, the yes will be more meaningful with a better match. Pick and choose the best people you can.  Be mentored my mentors without them knowing by making it natural. Also offer what you have instead of asking something for nothing. Your mentors or even potential mentors have a busy schedule and remember they don't have to help you at all. They don't owe you anything. In free will they choose to help you on their terms. Having a humble personality will go a long ways.

Be Grateful In All You Have, Yet Push Yourself

I want to take the time to say thank you all who have been supporting me through all means. I appreciate you all. Tell others you are grateful for what who they are and what they have done for you. Thank you to my family, friends, business owners, and supporters in being there in giving from materials, encouragement, and contacts. I am willing to help you when you need it. Having a strong network no matter who you are is invaluable.

For myself, I always want to push myself to do more since I have an infinite hunger to achieve more and give back more to those who need. Watching the sheer joy on people's faces in receiving a blessing right in the time they need it, is a gift in itself. We all have been there and learned a lot from these experiences. The act of giving is infinitely more powerful then only receiving.

As A Artist, Show Up = Being A Dedicated Professional In Action

The whole stereotype of how the artists don't show and are unpredictable. Not showing up and or cancelling constantly will bring doubt in how serious you are. No one wants to be around flaky people in building relationships. In you not showing up the time agreed upon it makes the whole art world look bad even though, there are very dedicated artists across the world. With work and dedication others will see it over time in developing trust. If you are constantly start/stop all the time, it shows you are not serious in their own eyes. Doing the start/stop reflects how you see your own business.

Ask yourself, Do you have a mission to propel you forward no matter what comes your way? If you are only here for the trends, you will be out of business just like all of the other entrepreneurs. The whole imagery of starving artist is even more prevailant in the entreprenuers/business owners. More people need think about this instead of only a small section when the questions need to be asked on a wider scale.

No matter what mission you have, prove it to yourself and potiential clients you are here for the long haul. To be seen as an asset for the global community.

Celebrating Life's Moments

Today is my grandpa's birthday. He turned 92 today. I bought a handmade cake from a local bakery. I wanted to make sure I bring the best cake I could since we don't know how long he will be alive. Yes, he is in great health. Yes, we all have regrets in wishing we spent more time with family. In the end of life there is nothing you can do to bring back that time. The respect of your own choices is what it has to be in order to have closure.

Focus on the happiest times of your life and lessons being learned. Being in euphoria brings your energy to the next level instead of focusing on the most painful. Although there is value in seeing your most painful moments in your life, why not bring happiness to yourself by magnifying them to others.

The Flaws In The Museums And Artists

With many museums, I see many artists unknown and their story either not there or made up. The aspect of the art museums is fact of preserving the art for the next generation. The forgotten stories of the artists makes the art without a guiding foundation. I understand the aspect of a collector in making their own stories with the art, however, I feel without the leading story with the art going down in value

.I have talked to many people who work at the museums. They said the whole description by the art is made up by the curators and the majority doesn't flow with the art. I say there must be a change in the art world. We need to create a better way to record the stories from the artists to go together along in their art. So no matter what generation they are in, their story is preserved for the coming generations.

In having no documentation, I see it as a disrespect to the artist's legacy. The artists spend countless of hours working on and developing the art in which the time will never come back and then having their story not be preserved is an insult to the dedication of creating art for their lifetime. As if you are the artist, in their own shoes. Wouldn't you want what you put so much effort and work into what you have made be respected and preserved beyond your lifetime in celebrating what you have brought to society to enjoy?

The Symbols From Your Childhood

Art to the average person is seen as foreign. Relating your childhood memories to vehicles, toys, tools to art is a way to connect with some of the greatest times in your life.. It is the nostalgia surrounding what means the most to you. The sentiment of the happiest times and forseeing your future as bright through expression filled experiences. It is a freeing of the mind in all aspects.

Art can represent the life you seek every day and or the perception you have. The art is the extention of each individual style, signature, and expresson they want to bring others into in being apart of. I am here to bridge the gap and invite those with an open mind to embrace the ideas and concepts I bring.

A piece called Blazing Sun is about the power we have within ourselves in letting our light emit from within. The Blazing Sun is so powerful, bright, high energy, and all caputuring in its essence. This piece was purchased for an office by a family member of the guggenheim. I am glad to be a part of this life and all who see the work in the office. He is a great man and will continue be there to create high value.

Use Your Trauma To Heal Others

In the perception of looking at many of the people who experienced so much trauma such as mental, physical, and psychological abuse, along with drug and alcohol addiction they choose to make an impact in society. In going through many hard times, it is a choice to turn their life around. If you need help and or a person to listen contact me.

By expressing yourself, it can be used as a therapy. I emersed myself into art to help myself heal along with developing a voice for therapy. At the time, I felt trapped in not being able to express myself. Over the years, I developed the art I do in having a message to others in helping them in where they are. I honestly wouldn't be here if I didn't create art. Since having this purpose in creating art, what I have build over many years, this will outlive my lifespan.  Art is a vehicle to dig deep within our own subconscious. We have experiences from our childhood buried deep. If you have going through situations, it is time to dig deep to ask the question, What memories in the past do I need to address in order to have a fulfilled life from now on.

You Can Help As Many People As You Can

I saw my uncle today.  He has been dealing with health issues along with a surgery. My uncle was complaining about pain. Recently, he went out to eat and had food in which was too greasy. I said to him, If what you have done hasn't worked then cut off the food that causes you pain. Focus on the healing food. He looked so thin like my stepdad. My stepdad was so extremely thin to be unhealthy. My uncles has worked at a fast food place. He gets free food there. I told him I quit eating there because the food made me feel so bad. The neglect over not eating enough nourishing food causes so many health issues due to defiencies over the long term. My father doesn't think he will do anything about it. When I see someone suffering, I want to do my best to help them. At the same time, they have to take ownership of their own self to fix this issues.

Learn to listen to your body. It will tell you by how you feel in the energy, focus, ability to do tasks and think strategically. Eating more plant based is easier on the body since the food is naturally and less energy to digest. In less digestion, we heal faster and have more energy and flexability. I want the best for you and your family. Start thinking about your health and those you love. The positive influence will rub off when they see you feeling so much greater.

Touch People's Lives What You Are Going Through

Today, I was helping in cleaning out my grandparents house. It seems so foreign doing this with 36 years of memories and my mother who grew up there. It is a challenging time when you are used to seeing your grandparents there. You want your grandparents to be there and live a great life in respect. As I was leaving my sister and I had a disagreement. I said It is a waste of time to argue. I have better things to do and have a place to be. 

Once I left, there is a man who was stranded and blocking traffic. No one was stopping to help him.  I pulled over and asked, Do you need a push. He said he is out of gas. There was a gas station beside him. I got a gallon of gas with a container so he could get to the next gas station. He was so happy. I didn't want to be repaid since I have been helped many times.  He insisted on repaying him back. What matters is I came in at the right time to help. I wanted him to realize how important it is to be helped. Why not do it since someday you could be the one who is in the same place as him.

Reflection Over The Year

Yesterday, I was looking through a graveyard and thinking about those who were living at one point on who they are. Also with those who loved them in the period of  time they lived in. See yourself as those who have and will pass since we are all mortals. Reflecting on myself being in their place, I say to myself, I have more to work on and live for. I have chosen to take more walks, eat better, drink more water. The junk food doesn't even taste good as it one did. When you realize what you are eating helps you feel better and tastes good you will want to be apart of it. The whole focusing on death is better spent focusing on the little time we have with no guarantee for a certain age.

We have to be and do our best. Even if you haven't made the right choices for years, today is the time to start taking better care of yourself. Since I have changed the way I have treated myself the quality of my life has increased. Who doesn't want more energy, better flexibility, less pain, sharper mind, increased circulation, better sleep. This is your choice every day.

The "Why" You Do What You Do Is The Key. Your Purpose.

Bob Ross painted so many paintings. There are so many painters all over the world. The welcoming experience he gave in his show as if you were right there is invaluable. The experience is what pulls you in. The same goes with all of these bands, groups, musicians as such. Decide to stand for a cause you believe in instead of only what you think will sell. Don't base your work on trends since you want longevity to be timeless.

 Capturing who you are through what you do and convey this to those who connect with all you represent.With a person such as Micheal Jackson, no one could replace him since he offered his own unique expression in his way. Whether being a fan of him or not doesn't affect his strong loyal supporters throughout the career he had. Live performances are where the fans can experience the artists in a personal way in which those who only listen to recordings don't.

Focus on Why you do what you do. Make it your own.

Manage Stress/Have A Better Quality Life

Today, my mother had a flat tire on the way back to home. She was stressed out. I said at least you were close to home and the vehicle didn't roll over. If you vehicle is top heavy it is more likely to flip. She got home safely after recieving roadside service. I said, You made it safely home and this is what matters most.

Another is my father was 4 1/2 hours late to fix a dryer. I wasn't communicated with despite the situation in the rain. I said, I could have been doing much more after leaving my home. I still was productive all day with not work related until the end half of the day. Setbacks are temporary. Get up early and start new and fresh the next day. Be grateful you have a new opportunity each day you are alive.

Collect And Record What Matters Most To You

When I think about my grandpa a huge part of him is the fact he is a veteran. It means the world to him to serve his country and the discipline he has developed over the decades and growing up on a farm. It is amazing to hear and see his perspective over the 90 years he is still alive. I only want the best for him. My grandpa is a survior no matter what comes his way. 

To this with your loved ones and or the symbols in which remind you of the greatest times you have had collect and record in their behalf. You want to savor them and the life time memories both of you have made together. In having these small periods of time to hold on to. know they mean as much to you as you do to them. Bring this light to others you share from your life for those memories to live on.

Who Are You? Ask Yourself.

The whole self image is stuck on the high pedastal of what they think life should be. In actuality, the life we see is all in the mirror and in the mind of honesty to yourself. You are right there. Explore yourself to answer many questions. Through time and experiences your self image will develop.  Spending time by yourself seems as a lonely path yet the still voice will come to you.

Delegate quiet times in order to focus. With all of this busyness it all seems to blur together and time goes so fast. Years go by like a flash. Each day, cherish the opportunity to get to know yourself and serve others. The challenging times tells us who we are by the response given. Be willing to keep an open mind in asking more questions instead of only accepting what you are told. The active mind is one of the best decision you will make.

Be In Every Place You Can Be

Limiting where you have your art will limit your exposure and more people who can potientially want to purchase. When you look at any relationship where you display your work, get to know them because they are going to be the first person the potential clients experiences. You want the best who represents you and what you are about. I make sure to get to know the terms before entering into the relationship.

Once you have found one place, go for another, then establish this and get another and another. Rotate your work to keep it fresh. Having fresh work will bring more eyes to your work. Develop a story with your work for more people to want to be apart of it. Hearing the voice you have from the story you have combined with the imagery you have is powerful. Seeing beyond yourself and serving others through the work you do as a solution, your whole life will change. 

Give It Your All

In challenging times, it is so easy to slack off. However, do you want to wish you had pushed yourself years from now? Once this time is gone there is nothing you can do to bring it back. Why not, push yourself every day to accomplish more. You will have much more gratification in knowing you are being and doing your best. Instead of following what others are doing, do your own thing. Too many people mix in. Your work ethic needs to be a tradmark of who you are.

The same thing goes with artists. When you go to several art fairs they are tend to blur together. Why not push yourself to be original. Yes it is more work, yet better off in originality. This is your trademark and have a deeper purpose in creating a connection with others. It is not about how pretty the art is. What meaning and connection does it have? 

Glorification Of The Reward

There are so many people who only focus on the reward instead of what it really takes to achieve it. A process is where it is at in dedication. thick skin, determination, being hungry, open minded in learning the correct things to achieve what is desired. Having the mindset of doing which ever you need to get to what you are seeking is very essential.

I have had so much failure however I view it as only temporary. I see myself as being successful by the high value I bring. Grow to understand yourself and what drives you. What is the reason why you are doing what you are doing? The whole immediate mentality like the microwave generation is honestly hurting this world for the long term. When things are given to you, they are not valued compared to working for it since you understand how much you invested in the final results.

Remembering A Best Friend

Growing up, I spent a lot of time with my best friend and his family. His family didn't have much since his mother was raising four children by herself. That is a huge feat to do all by herself. His name is Michael York.  Michael used to spend the night, loved playing video games. We stayed up all night since none of couldn't sleep. I was so happy to spend time with him such as go down the slip and slide in the back yard. His family lived at the corner of the street in a duplex right by the elementary. We would play basketball at the elementary playground and my next door neighbors house. Sometimes we would play volleyball. I remember spending the night at my best friends house and sleeping upstairs in the bed listening to bush. A band from the 1990's. In mid 1995, I moved and didn't see Michael as much.

My parents used to order pizza on the weekends and we would eat at the dinning room table. I remember how Michael used to run funny. We could run at the same speed even though he was taller. As time went on since we didn't live in the same neighborhood, there was a splitting apart. I still thought of him as my best friend. As the end of his life, he decided to hang with the wrong kind of crowd of people.

Even in his passing from the vehicle accident in which killed his sister, their two other friends, and himself for the mere entertainment of ramping a bridge on country road. I know he wants the best for his family and friends. I still think of him from time to time and wonder where would he be if he were alive now.

Focus On Being The Solution

In the period of time, the average person focuses on the reward when they don't understand how much work and dedication it took to earn the income. The whole microwave mentality is so short sided and lacks the long term gratification. You must listen closely to your audience and fill this place where the others don't fill in. Never assume you have all the answers for everything. As soon as you think this, you will be going out of business sooner or later.

Understand, your clients including art collectors don't have to purchase from you. Make them honestly feel special and the connection they desire. Continue to ask questions and listen closely. The answers you are looking for are readily available. Stick to the purpose you are about and have an open mind to serve clients.

The Happiest Time In Your Life

Having a testing and or challenging day today? When you have these kinds of days remember the best times in your life. You can create a great day even if your day started out not very good. How your take things in your life as something to learn from and make the best of it is the kind of character you choose to be.

One time, I was invited to do a festival. There were many artists who were supposed to be there and at the last moment cancelled. What is the point of telling someone you will show up and don't? I said I would show up and did. The festival didn't go well however I showed I can be trusted and will be there when I say I will. Developing the relationship with the leader of the event is important. I came there to build trust and reputation in being reliable. Also another positive is I received a free breakfast even though I offered to pay. I am thankful for the opportunity in meeting new people and for a great meal. Be thankful for what you do have and work on what you desire.

Haven't Reached The Success You Desire?

Often times, we have many micro-traumas being unrealized even from decades ago. As we bury it deep with in, it burrows in our subconscious. Discovering what is holding you back is so critical to your success. If you have a mental wound and don't know it, the time is now to dig deep and start reading Code To Joy By George Pratt and Peter Lambrou. To be a high performer, letting go and working through the process is a have to in order to succeed as much as you are dreaming of.

There are many memories I had forgotten after so many year until I unconvered it. Equipping your mind with what you need now, is a process through life to have a better life. Commit to working through your issues and overcoming them so you can live life now instead of wishing you had decades ago. Which one is your choice today?

Filter What Comes Into Your Mind

Decide what you will let into your mind and subconscious instead of accepting. Realize the mentality certain people have and if you choose to adopt. Develop a mindset of is this beneficial to your over all mental and physical health.

Remember, as a child everyone is more open minded and you have things planted into you in which you don't realize since it is automatic. It is time to question your life in why do you do what you do. Every human is a creature of habits as muscle memory instilled in all of us. What are the habits you wish to discard and others in adopt?

Focus On Creating More Value

So many people look at others to copy when then actually creating their own value. When you are spending too much time on what everyone else is doing you become non productive. Starting as an artist, I thought to myself I will try to fit in and go into what I think people will purchase. It didn't work as so I thought it would.  Venturing in out of the box art, I received much rejection. I am fine with it since many of those who rejected my work are out of business.

As soon as I started expanding the art, the work I did the faster the momentum became. In being a creative, others can truly see where you are the happiest by the final result. Letting my mind go and expand who I am elevated by being comfortable in putting myself out there. It is a bold challenge to have. Think of who can you help today and for the rest of your life. Put in the action now.

Being In A Gallery.....

When I was in a gallery, I had so many different kinds of people come through. Many of them didn't have much any idea of what art is nor insight to what being an artist is. You can choose tobe offended or you can be the one who introduces them to art through the relatable story you bring. I had this one young man who came to my area in the gallery during an event and he outright said I don't know anything about art. He didn't want to assume anything. I said I wish more people would be upfront about their experience.

 Each artist's story has its own relatable uniqueness. So many artists don't put a story by their art. It leaves big questions on the potiential collector's mind. I understand the work does need to give the collector room to make their own life align with the artist's work. After all, they are going to be living with the art for the rest of their life. You want to be a part of their life and bringing the high value through memories to hold.

Set A Certain Schedule For A New Start

At times, it is time to clean out your workspace, living space, and all other areas. It is more then just a place you are in. By keeping it clean, your mental focus is much greater. The physical translates to mental clutter. By having a cleaner space to live in and work in, you become more effective. Also when you have a more organized life you become fulfilled over the larger part of your life. Since this mental and physical weight has been lifted off of you, it will feel like a whole new life. Plus when you give what you don't need away to those who actually do need it, there is a sense of doing the right thing. I have given much of my possessions away to those who have needed and or could use. I believe everyone needs to do this from time to time to freshen up their perspective.

Are You Looking For the Solution Or Complaining about the problem?

So many people complain about their situation and have the mentality of a victim. I don't understand this when they could choose to be in the driverseat. How does complaining fix the issues? It doesn't and never will. When the people who you are around choose to be this way nothing changes. They choose to be unhappy and unfilled when they could switch it around. We deal with issues and how we view them is going to be more important part. Pick and choose the message you allow in your mind and everything else. Stay calm and look at your situation as a temporary. I know it is easy to get angry about where you are. When you shift how you look at life it will move in the choices you make.

Is this the right emotion you want to transmit?

Many times others have responded to the responses of others. Ask yourself, Does the emotion you project in how and what you say honestly worth it? There are many times I don't say what I have on my mind because I have to ask myself, is the really worth saying? Once it is said, there is no turning back.

I was recently in a meeting and the big part of the neighborhood was there. I waited for the right time patiently. When I asked the question, the answer was devaluing. Either way, there are better opportunities. I didn't reply back I am here to be respected in the community and build over the years.

Before hand, the lady next me, was so angry and took it out on a certain person in charge. I wanted nothing to do with this and didn't know this lady was going to go off. This lady gave me her business card. Since she wasn't professional in the way she approached certain things, I didn't want to do business with her. Keeping your composure is a big part in others wanting to do business with you and associate with you. I understand there ware times of where yes you want to lash out. However is it really worth issues and loss in relationships over the long term no.

Own Up To Your Mistakes

Everyone has made mistakes including myself. When you make a mistake own up to it and authentically appologize. No one likes to glorify their mistakes. For many years, growing up I didn't take care of my health the way I needed to.

 Now I am getting back on track since I want to have the best like I can so I can  have more ability to impact others. I may not having children in my lifetime, however I want to show younger people what I have learned thinking ahead for them so they don't have to go through what I did. I talk to the younger people so they will have a better life and different perspective. 

Another mistake I made was not investing enough and applying myself right after I got out of high school. I had to forgive so many people including my father who was abusive growing up. Why let someone else have control over you when the ball is in your own court. When you choose to let go so much weight will be off of your whole being.

Listen Closely To Those Who Benefit You

My grandpa has always spoken to me about my health and being the best I can. He is a us army veteran, born and raised on a farm. He has always worked hard all of his life. My grandpa has helped our family so much over all these years. Over 35 years, he has and is dedicated to family. I appreciate who he is and what he has done.  I wish I could have spent more time with him and my grandma. I have had to work so many hours to make things happen.

It is time to reformulate my life to have more time to spend with my family. My grandpa understands I have to work in order to live, however there comes a time of where there must be a balance of peace and tranquality versus all of the go, go, go. More thought needs to be in the mind of society instead in mentality of a machine.

Study Human Patern Of Thoughts

As I watch each period of time, in every decade perception changes. In the earlier ages, it is about exploring, being loud, learning, speaking, developing emotional normalities. With each period of time, people evolve as experiencing more. The social form can be in peer pressure however developing critical thinking to be on their own is so important. Ideally, with time you experience more and become better equipped.

The whole spectrum of life becomes apparent through seeing the cycle. No matter what cycle you are in making the most of it as valuable lessons are learned. Everyone can advance no matter what stage they are in. Take care of yourself since you are individual in charge of your health in which is everything to who you are.

Minimize Your Distractions

In day to day life, there can be so many distractions. Set boundries with others in order to be more efficient instead of occupied with other then what you need to get done. Quiet the noise, learn to focus in staying on task. Tell yourself, you will accomplish what you set your mind to. Make an interesting platform in what you are doing to keep it fresh. With adding a fresh platform it will  sustain the energy and dedication instead of fizzing out. By minimizing your distractions you become more effective with faster results. In the whole scheme of things, you will have more gratification in knowing you are effective.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     

Work, and Dedication/No Self entitlement

No one owes you anything. I never understood this from any generation since all generations will have to earn what they have. It can take years to accomplish what you are seeking. There is no overnight success. It is all an illusion. Others have to see you are taking what you are doing seriously. When they don't see you doing it day in and day out, others start to question you. Showing dedication and work into what you love is so important. Plus it creates discipline for you and others around you.
What are you serious about enough to put in the time and work?

What are you serious about enough to put in the time and work?

Set The Atmosphere Around You By Your Attitude

I was recently in a restaurant. There was a great server who was willing to take care of me, asked if I needed refills, and perceived to have a positive attitude in service. She is willing to accomodate what I needed in special requests easily since she has an attention to detail. I didn't want half of the things on the menu yet she didn't overcharge me for all the items I didn't want. I willingly tipped this person higher. You can tell when people choose to work and be of a great service compared to taking a long time to get back to customers. When people feel important they want to be apart of it.

In the same restaurant, another server was avoiding me, taking a long time to see how I am doing, never asked me if I needed a refill. The place was not busy, This server overcharged me for items I didn't want nor received. When you receive service like this it makes me no want to return back since the whole experience of no getting for all I purchased for.

Stay with the quality you deserve. You vote with your money.

Help Others In Need

Yesterday, I was in a town and saw a young person stranded since their vehicle broke down. There were so many vehicles behind her. I parked in the near parking lot and went to her vehicle to help push it into a parking lot. I understand what it is like to be stranded in traffic since my vehicle broke down. No one came to help me in that time.Why not give what I didn't receive to someone else. It is about being of service in a time of where others need. It is funny when one person comes to help others will join. This is the power of unity as we team up together.

Stop Talking About It, Do It Yourself

There comes a time when enough is enough when you have had it and start to do what is needed. Many times other people want to sit around to do nothing important. You ask them to join in with you, they act like they want to, however, every single time when it comes to taking actions they don't want to. What is the point of saying you want to do something when you don't. If you actually wanted to you already would have done what you said. Why not, step and help others and be more productive instead of staring at your phone to complete nothing. Getting things done in the right way and effective is a completely different mindset. Which one are you? It is your choice.

What Inspires You?

Instead of focusing on what you dread, look for more ways to inspire yourself. By focusing on what give you momentum, your mind will become a healthier place to be in. It is important to ask yourself this question. Also what roadblocks are holding you mentally back. Knowing your trigger points is to know yourself at a higher level. Remember, roadblocks are only temporary. Controling your mind is setting up your physical in a better state. Dig deeper and seek what inspires you today. The sooner you do is the life shift you have desired all of this time. If you don't know it, then experiment to see where you are most comfortable with. The inspiration will come to when you least expect it as it hits you.

Reset Your Clock

If you aren't getting done with the things you need to be, reset your time. Getting up earlier brings a different mindset. You will have more energy in the morning then you will normally after a long day of work. Set a to do list for no more then 7 days. It will be on your mind as in the importance now instead of getting so far ahead of yourself, you don't move in the way you need to. I have recently started to get up earlier to get things done instead of sleeping in. Getting things done is very important to long term satisfaction over all. Seeing what you have accomplished visually is an encouragement to push forward and do more.

Seek Opportunities To Grow

Have the mindset of where can I help others and see door ways into where you see yourself in. This world is so much smaller than you think. You never know who you are talking to and or someone who knows well known individuals who could potentially help you in what you are doing. Dig as much as you can until you reach your desired result in doing what you seek to obtain. Be kind to everyone as much as possible,even in the most challenging situations. Sometimes others could be just testing you to see what your limit is. Be patient with the doorways open.

Be Mentor To The Younger Generation

Recently I was working on my art, and a group of high schoolers came to the area I was in. There were three leaders in the group. One of the leaders asked, What is this? I said, this is my art based on encouragement, I am getting ready for a show. She said oh. This group is about high school students who have been bullied. I said to them I can understand since I was there.

 I told them a little bit of my family life so they could get a grasp in which I understand their situation. I shared a story about the work I was doing at the moment to give them a sense of encouragement in who they are. Perception place a huge part in how situations are received.  One of the leaders took a picture with me holding my work along with the students. I have thought about high school students from time to time since they are our future. We have to equip them the best we can in knowing what they can experience better even better then us.

I gave some pointers and examples in which could help the students to over come the bullying. Staying in smaller groups is easier to communicate and less stress. Plus it is more intimate on a personal group then having a giant group. Being by yourself it will been seen as easier to target then a group of people who are together. When you have someone who has been through what you are going through it is a whole different ball park then doing it all yourself.

Initiate The Connections - Offer First

The majority of the time, most people will not be the one to reach out to you. Find a connection you both will identify with and have this be a beginning of a relationship. Take time to get to know who they are and pet it unravel. Ask them,What are they looking for a solution. Listen closely and it will show itself. The more

Every Day Is New Start For You

At times you may feel starting again on your creative process isn't worth it. Ask yourself, Is this going to benefit my mental, spiritual, physical, creative health? No matter if it has been decades, years, or even months, you owe it to yourself to start again. Having the momentum in all aspects creates a sense of well being since you can visually see the progress. Over the years you will see how the work you have done has shifted. In your mind, it might be saying to give up. However, you have to ask yourself what is the main outcome of me giving up? Do you want to look at your life and reflect back in regret in wishing you would or looking back at the end of your life in gratification and meaningful action.

Produce Only Quality In Your Art

When you create your art, only put your best into it. First and the lasting impression is so important. You want collectors, and potiential collectors to have trust,and belief in what you do in the symbolism of your work. When I look at paintings, I see how the edges aren't painted. I think to myself why do it half way when you need to be going all out. Remember your collector is the one who is going to live with your work day in and day out to enjoy for the rest of their life. Don't you think you owe it to yourself and your collectors to put into your work? This is your signature and legacy.

Make A Priority To Get Enough Rest And Sleep

Getting enough sleep makes a huge difference in day to day life. Having quality sleep means you will be able to function so much better, have more energy, better focus, and taking care of yourself. I learned the hard way. Even in your younger years you may be able to get away with little sleep. In due time it will catch up to you. I am saying this because I want you to be and feel your best. When you are able to focus, have more endurance, and functional mentally much better, the quality of your life will go up because you see and feel the big difference over the long term.

The same goes with creating art. With having a sound mind and endurance to create. What you do create will be much better since your attention to detail will improve and you will avoid major health issues related to not getting enough sleep. Take great care of yourself since it is the only body you will have for the rest of your life.